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Brian Kay

Brian Kay

LCSW

Mindful, practical therapy for life changes

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefDepressionCoaching

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Utah

Languages

English

Licenses listed

As listed on the therapist's profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

  • Mindfulness informed
  • Practical coping skills
  • Values-based work

About Brian

Brian Kay is a licensed clinical social worker with two decades of experience supporting people through hard times. He uses a straightforward, compassionate style and focuses on helping clients manage stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief, and addiction. Brian speaks English and works from Utah as an LCSW. He blends Mindfulness Therapy with cognitive-behavioral ideas to help people notice patterns and make small workable changes. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) principles are used to help clients clarify values and take meaningful steps, while elements of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) support emotion regulation and coping skills. Client-Centered Therapy guides the tone of sessions so conversations stay respectful and collaborative. Brian has worked in a variety of settings, including psychiatric hospital risk assessments and a family advocacy program in the U.S. Air Force. That background informs his practical approach when someone is dealing with trauma, addiction, or crises linked to caregiving or first responder work. He aims to make planning feel doable rather than overwhelming. In session he is warm, nonjudgmental, and interactive. He avoids stigmatizing labels and tailors talk and goals to each person’s situation. Typical topics include parenting stress, sleep struggles, body image, abandonment or family-of-origin issues, and navigating major life changes. Seeking help takes courage, and Brian focuses on steady support and practical steps. If someone is ready to look for change, he offers guided conversations and tools to move forward.

How mindfulness and ACT inform online sessions

Mindfulness Therapy helps people become more aware of thoughts and bodily sensations without getting swept up in them; this can reduce reactivity and improve day-to-day coping. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying what matters to someone and taking small committed actions that reflect those values. Client-Centered Therapy keeps the tone collaborative, with the therapist following the client’s lead and offering empathy and practical feedback.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Brian will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. Together they will try methods that fit the client’s needs and adjust the plan as progress is made.

The biography does not specify which session formats are used, so confirm available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, shorten commute time, and allow for check-ins that focus on skill practice and planning. Phone or video options may be offered by licensed professionals in general; check current session types to see what this therapist provides and what fits your schedule.

These summaries are based on the profile information listed on BetterHelp. Listing mindfulness as an approach does not mean a therapist holds a formal mindfulness training or certificate.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Brian commonly address?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief, addiction, ADHD, and related life changes. Additional areas include caregiver stress, chronic illness, body image, and first responder issues.

What is his therapeutic style like?

Sessions are warm, nonjudgmental, and interactive. He blends mindfulness, CBT, ACT, and DBT skills while keeping conversations practical and respectful.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He brings 20 years of clinical experience, including time conducting psychiatric hospital risk assessments and managing a family advocacy program in the U.S. Air Force.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, practicing in Utah.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English only. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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