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Harold Eckholm

Harold Eckholm

LPC, LMFT

Mindful, steady support for lasting change

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issues

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Imago Relationship TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational Interviewing

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

Arizona, Virginia

Languages

English

Licenses listed

  • LPC, ArizonaLPC-2332
  • LMFT, Virginia0717000697
  • NPI 1336350164

As listed on the therapist's profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

  • Mindfulness focused
  • Relationship help
  • Trauma informed

About Harold

Harold Eckholm is a licensed counselor and marriage and family therapist who uses mindfulness as a core part of his work. He draws on calm, present-focused practices alongside conversation to help people manage stress, anxiety, and patterns that keep them stuck. Harold’s manner is straightforward and steady, aimed at making hard conversations feel more manageable.

Harold has three decades of clinical experience and holds LPC and LMFT credentials, with licensure in Arizona and Virginia. He has worked extensively with people facing addictions, relationship and family conflict, and trauma and abuse. He also addresses issues such as abandonment, attachment concerns, blended family dynamics, and substance use problems.

In sessions he prioritizes an open, nonjudgmental space where thoughts and feelings can be shared honestly. He combines mindfulness practices with client-centered listening and cognitive tools to help people notice patterns and make practical changes. Motivational approaches are used when someone is ready to shift behavior.

Harold helps people talk through parenting stress, divorce and separation, codependency, and caregiver strain. He also supports clients dealing with alternative sexual cultures, communication breakdowns, and family of origin wounds. The focus is on clear goals and small, manageable steps forward.

To begin, a prospective client uses the Start Therapy button and completes a short matching questionnaire. Scheduling is then arranged according to therapist availability and the subscription model in use.

How Mindfulness and Attachment Work in Online Therapy

Mindfulness Therapy focuses on present-moment awareness and simple breathing or attention practices. It can help reduce reactivity to stress, quiet racing thoughts, and make it easier to notice habits that lead to anxiety or substance use.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape expectations and patterns in current connections. It helps people understand repeating relationship dynamics, improve communication, and feel more settled in close relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Harold will collaborate with each person to choose practices and exercises that match their goals and preferences. Together they set small steps, review what helps, and adjust the plan over time.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm available options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - for example, shorter check-ins at lunchtime, fewer commute hours, or using audio-only meetings when bandwidth is limited. Licensed professionals can adapt mindfulness exercises and attachment-focused conversation to an online setting, helping people make steady progress while fitting sessions into everyday routines.

These summaries are based on the profile information listed on BetterHelp. Listing mindfulness as an approach does not mean a therapist holds a formal mindfulness training or certificate.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Harold commonly address?

He works with addictions, relationship and family conflict, trauma and abuse, parenting stress, anxiety, and related issues like codependency and attachment problems.

What therapeutic style can I expect in sessions?

Sessions blend mindfulness practice with client-centered listening, cognitive tools, and motivational conversation to help people notice patterns and make changes.

How long has he practiced clinically?

Harold brings 30 years of professional experience working with people across a range of concerns.

What credentials and region are associated with this therapist?

He holds LPC and LMFT credentials and is licensed in Arizona and Virginia, with practice rooted in Arizona for this profile.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled for therapy?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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