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Joni De Groot

Joni De Groot

LMFT

Practical support for stress, relationships, and parenting

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexualityWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

35+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Licenses listed

As listed on the therapist's profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

  • Client-centered care
  • Mindfulness practices
  • CBT and DBT tools

About Joni

Joni De Groot is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 35 years of clinical experience. She helps people manage stress and anxiety, navigate relationship and parenting challenges, and find practical ways to cope during major life transitions. Her work is collaborative and down-to-earth, aimed at clear steps that reduce daily strain.

Joni uses a client-centered style combined with cognitive behavioral tools to help people notice unhelpful patterns and try new responses. Mindfulness practices are woven into sessions to build calm and awareness. She also draws on dialectical behavior strategies and Jungian perspectives when they fit the client's goals.

Her background includes roles as an intake coordinator, case manager, and therapist in sub-acute care, outpatient clinics, schools, and residential settings. She has worked with multidisciplinary teams that included psychiatrists, social service agencies, and educational programs. That experience informs a practical, systems-aware approach to common family and school concerns.

Sessions focus on making useful changes that fit a person's life. Joni aims to help people strengthen communication, set clearer boundaries, and develop coping skills that carry into home and work. She also supports parents who are balancing caregiving stress and school-related issues for their children.

Joni offers tele-therapy and frames sessions as a collaborative space to try new strategies. She encourages small, measurable steps so progress is visible and sustainable over time.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Joni combines Mindfulness Therapy with Client-Centered Therapy and cognitive behavioral techniques in ways that work well online. Mindfulness Therapy invites simple attention practices to reduce reactivity and increase calm, which can help with stress, anxiety, and parenting overwhelm. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person’s perspective so the client feels heard and can choose useful changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) offers clear steps to change thought patterns and behaviors that maintain anxiety or relationship problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the early work. Joni treats the choice of methods as collaborative, adapting practices to the client's goals, lifestyle, and what feels manageable. She helps people try techniques and checks in to see what fits and what to change.

The biography notes she is comfortable with tele-therapy, but specific session formats were not fully detailed. Before booking, confirm which formats are offered. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people practice new skills between sessions in real-life contexts and brings therapy into the routines where change needs to stick.

These summaries are based on the profile information listed on BetterHelp. Listing mindfulness as an approach does not mean a therapist holds a formal mindfulness training or certificate.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Joni address?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and parenting challenges, plus related areas such as attachment, codependency, body image, aging, and divorce and separation.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Sessions are collaborative and practical. She blends client-centered listening with cognitive behavioral tools and mindfulness practices to try small, useful changes.

How much experience does she have?

She has 35 years of experience in clinical roles including intake coordination, case management, and therapy across outpatient, school, and residential settings.

What credentials and location are on record?

She is listed as an LMFT licensed in California and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography mentions tele-therapy as part of her practice. Confirm current session options before booking to know which formats are offered.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

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